So this is a post about one of the major parts of every exchange student's experience; Friends! Now, I just want to say that making friends is also difficult for almost all exchange students. Although I've felt like I had friends all year, I haven't made the effort to have close Ecuadorian friends until around Christmas time. Since friendships generally take months or even years to form, it's a bit of a sped up process for someone who is only living in a country for 10 months total. In saying all of that, this past week I started to see the results of relentlessly inviting friends to do things, inviting myself to group outings, and putting myself in conversations when I had no idea what people were talking about. So, I guess it's time to let you know exactly what I've been up to!
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Martin, Michelle, and I |
On Wednesday, I went to the movies and to eat with two classmates, Michelle and Martin. Although I have gone out with classmates before, I've never felt as comfortable or included as I did that day. We saw Game night (Noche de juegos in Spanish), had shawarma, and I ended up staying the night at Michelle's house. Even though it may have just been hanging out with the exchange student to them, it meant so much more to me.
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Roberto, Anita, Mabe and of course me! |
Two of the closest friends I've made here are sisters from my church; Anita and Mabe. They've made a few appearances in my previous blog posts, and I've felt comfortable with them since day 1. That being said, we've grown closer and closer, and I truly feel like we could be sisters now. On Saturday, they invited me to a party (not to worry, it was more like a dance) and I spent the night at their house afterwords. On Sunday, us and one of my classmates (Roberto) went to eat hornado, a typical Ecuadorian dish. I got to see an Ecuadorian market and spend time with amazing friends.
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At the dance with Anita <3 |
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Getting ready for the dance with Mabe |
Although I've heard that the first 4 or 5 months of exchange are harder and the second half is the payoff, I've never truly understood it until now. Time continues to pass faster and faster, and I am cherishing every moment of my last 3 and 1/2 months in Quito. I hope you have enjoyed reading about some of the friendships I've made here. Until my next post!
I have enjoyed everything about your exchange, and loved hearing everything.
ReplyDeleteLove you,
Gram